** We are giving away a free pair of black latex gloves with every purchase from the arse-nal only this Butt Week!**

Step 4. Awakening the 'Rosebud'

The Rosebud refers to the outer opening of the anal passage, that pucker on the outside. We recommend wearing black latex gloves for this technique (we are giving them away with every purchase from the Arsenal this week). Apply lots of lube to your fingers and partner's genitals, move smoothly from the front of the body to the back and gently glide the fingers over the opening of the rosebud. Small, circular, massaging motions are great and will ignite the nerve endings.

Step 5. Bearing Down

This is for the person receiving any kind of anal penetration: when you’re really feelin’ it and you want to accept a finger, toy or penis into your butt, gently push out or ‘bear down’. This may feel counter-intuitive. You want to bring something in not push something out right? But unless you do this, the anal muscle will not open. That door bitch is adamant. The giver needs to be aware of when this happens. 

Once you’ve ‘opened the door’ and anal penetration has occurred, slow movements are essential from the giver. There’s no need to rush. 

Step 6. Butt Plugging

When using a plug, the muscle's inside the anal passageway will wrap tightly around the narrowest part (the stem) to hold it in place. A well designed plug will have a wide bulb and a narrow neck. We recommend a narrower neck for first timers. Sex with a butt plug inside you can make sex overwhelmingly full and present and intensify your orgasm. Check out the wide (and tapered) selection in our Arse-nal.

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