You haven’t had a partner, or a new partner,
in you don’t know how long and you’re terrified!
Your mind is filled with noise -
“My body isn’t sexy”!
“I forget how to make love”.
“What if I’m crap”?
“My bum is huge”!
“I forget what a penis looks like”.
“What can I do”?
Here are our top 7 tips for getting ship shape in the sack.
Stop worrying. Most people are just happy that someone wants to have it off with them. I promise they’ll be thinking about your arse and not about your cellulite.
Be honest. Tell your prospective partner that you’re shitting yourself and that you need trust and guidance. They’ll love it!
Make a pact with yourself that you will communicate fully with every sexual partner. That means being completely open about what you want and what they expect. (Get that Communication Card)!
Do you know what you want? If not why not? Make it your mission to find out so that when someone asks “So what turns you on”? you know the answer.
If you can orgasm by yourself then you don’t need a partner to do it for you. Approach sex as a way to really connect and be intimate with a person, ie. take away the expectation of performance and replace it with love.
Be totally enthusiastic. Really want to worship your lover’s body and mind. Lick, kiss, suck and pump like it’s your last day on earth. That is sexy as hell.
Why search online or in dingy bars? Book an appointment with one of the gorgeous men from Aphrodisiac Male Escorts. In one hour they’ll take all the self-doubt away. (If this intrigues you, listen to our podcast).
Send us an email saying "Talk to me....like lovers do" and receive the free Communication Card that will change the way you approach sex.
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