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Or perhaps you've been non-monogamous for a decade and have discovered that new relationships, changing needs and unexpected feelings can still throw you the occasional curveball.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWherever you are, this workshop is designed to meet you there.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIn this practical 2.5-hour workshop, certified sexologist and experienced ENM educator James will explore the different stages and challenges that can arise in non-monogamous relationships, and give you practical tools for navigating them with greater confidence, communication and care.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDrawing on 18 years of personal ENM experience and his work with hundreds of individuals and couples, James takes a realistic approach to non-monogamy. It's not about finding the \"right\" way to do ENM. 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