1. It's not necessarily foreplay

Many people think of oral sex as foreplay but actually, it can be a bit much for sensitive pussies, especially when it's right at the beginning of a session. Warm up the body first with massage, nipple kissing, tongue kissing and sexy talk. Mix things up and go south when you're partner is hot and demanding. If the receiver sets the rhythm, pace and pressure all the better. Mix it up with penetration, toys, bondage...whatever you're into.

2. Nipples

Nipples have a direct nerve pathway to the genitals. While you're licking, pinch the nipples just hard enough to please (everyone is different so pay attention).

3. Use fingers and toys

Some of the best oral includes dipping the fingers into the vagina and penetrating with consistent, confident moves. Add an internal vibrator to really ramp up the arousal. We recommend the realistic feeling Big Boss if you're game or the more petite Charming Smile.

4. Talk

Let your partner know that their pussy is beautiful. Tell them how good they taste, how their smell makes you hot as hell and how you could fuck that gorgeous pussy all day long. Take long, deep looks into their eyes when you can and show worship and enthusiasm.

5. Maintain Consistency

When you notice that your lover is getting closer to climax, keep doing what you're doing and don't change the rhythm. Consistency is key and often if you change it up here, the moment is lost. Don't lose it!

Read our favourite book on this subject "She Comes First" - by Ian Kirner

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