Arousal Oils + Delay Gels
Arousal enhancers and delay products are designed to change the way sensation feels - whether you’d like a little more of it, or a little less.
Arousal oils, gels and serums can create warming, cooling, tingling or stimulating sensations when applied externally, helping to increase awareness and make touch feel more noticeable. They can be a fun addition to solo or partnered play, and may also be useful for people who find arousal takes a little longer than it once did.
Delay gels and sprays work differently. Designed for the penis, they temporarily reduce sensitivity to help delay ejaculation and extend sexual activity. Formulas vary, so it’s important to follow the directions carefully and check compatibility with condoms, partners and other products.
At Passionfruit, we look beyond the promises on the packet and choose products based on ingredients, intended use and how they actually feel on the body. Read the individual product information to find the right formula for you.
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Arousal Oils, Stimulating Gels + Delay Products
Arousal oils and delay gels sit at opposite ends of sensation play. Arousal products are designed to make touch feel more noticeable, while delay products temporarily reduce sensation.
Neither is about what a body should be doing. They are simply options for changing how sensation feels.
What are arousal oils and gels?
Arousal oils, gels and serums are topical products applied externally to areas such as the vulva, clitoris or nipples. Depending on the formula, they may create warming, cooling, tingling or stimulating sensations that make an area feel more responsive to touch.
They can be useful for anyone curious about adding another layer of sensation, and for people who find that arousal or sensitivity has changed over time.
Arousal products and menopause
Changes in hormones during perimenopause and menopause can affect genital sensation, arousal and lubrication. Some people enjoy stimulating oils or gels as part of adapting to these changes.
An arousal product is different from a lubricant. If dryness or friction is also an issue, a suitable personal lubricant may be useful alongside it.
What are delay gels and sprays?
Delay products are designed for the penis and temporarily reduce sensitivity. They are sometimes used by people who would like ejaculation to happen later or who simply prefer less intense penile sensation during sexual activity.
Different products work in different ways and vary considerably in strength, so always follow the instructions for the individual formula.
How do I choose an arousal or delay product?
Start with the sensation being sought. For more sensation, look at warming, cooling, tingling and stimulating formulas. For reduced penile sensitivity, choose a product specifically designed for delaying ejaculation or desensitising the penis.
Ingredients matter too. Genital skin can be sensitive, and stronger does not necessarily mean better. Start with a small amount and stop using a product if it causes uncomfortable burning or irritation.
Check the individual product instructions for information about condom compatibility and where the product can safely be applied.
Shop Arousal Oils + Delay Gels in Australia
Passionfruit's collection includes arousal oils, stimulating gels, warming products and delay sprays selected for their ingredients, intended use and how they feel on the body.
Shop online Australia wide or visit Passionfruit in Fitzroy, Melbourne for practical, sexology informed advice on choosing the right product.
