Together
What Is It?
Together by Biird is a beautifully designed intimacy card game created to help couples connect through meaningful conversation, playful exploration and shared experiences.
Developed in collaboration with renowned French sexologist and educator Jüne Plã (Jouissance Club), Together contains 180 thoughtfully written cards across six themes that gradually move from light-hearted conversation to deeper intimacy. Rather than focusing on dares or shock value, the game encourages curiosity, communication and pleasure at your own pace.
Whether you've just started dating or you've been together for decades, Together creates space to slow down, reconnect and discover new things about each other.
Why We Love It
Most "sex games" are full of cheesy dares.
This isn't one of them.
Together feels more like a beautifully curated date night than a game. The questions are intelligent, playful and genuinely thought-provoking, helping couples talk about pleasure, fantasies, boundaries, memories and desires in a way that feels natural rather than awkward.
The production quality is gorgeous too. Thick matte cards, elegant design and a beautiful glass die make it feel like a luxury coffee-table game rather than something you'll hide in a drawer.
It's also completely inclusive. There are no assumptions about gender, sexuality or relationship dynamics, making it one of the most welcoming intimacy games we've seen.
If you're looking for a way to deepen intimacy, not just spice things up, this is one of our favourite recommendations.
Best For
- Date nights
- Couples at any stage of their relationship
- Improving communication
- Exploring intimacy
- Building emotional connection
- Long-term relationships
- New relationships
- Queer couples
- Thoughtful, sex-positive conversations
- Screen-free quality time
Not Ideal For
- Couples wanting explicit sexual dares
- Large group or party games
- Fast-paced drinking games
- Customers looking for competitive gameplay
Passionfruit Says
"We're completely smitten with Together. It's one of the most beautiful intimacy games we've ever stocked - not because it's the naughtiest, but because it creates genuine connection. The questions are smart, inclusive and refreshingly free of clichés. It's the kind of game you'll come back to again and again because every conversation is different."
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Together an erotic game?
Not exactly. It begins with gentle conversation and connection before gradually introducing more intimate topics. You choose how far you want to go, and every card is optional.
Do we have to answer every card?
No. There are no rules saying you must complete every prompt. Skip any question that doesn't suit your mood or comfort level.
Is it suitable for LGBTQIA+ couples?
Absolutely. Together was written to be inclusive of all genders, sexualities and relationship dynamics.
Is it good for long-term relationships?
Yes. It's a wonderful way to reconnect, spark new conversations and explore topics that often don't come up in everyday life.
Can new couples play it too?
Definitely. Whether you've been together for a few weeks or many years, the game adapts to where you're at by letting you choose the categories and pace.
Is it more about sex or communication?
Communication comes first. While intimacy and pleasure are part of the experience, the focus is on creating meaningful conversations and helping couples understand each other more deeply.
Who is Together best suited to?
Anyone who believes the best foreplay starts with connection. Whether you're celebrating a special occasion, planning a date night or simply wanting to spend quality time together, Together is one of the most thoughtful and beautifully designed relationship games we've come across.
