Lapis: App Controlled

What Is It?

The Lovense Lapis is one of the most innovative toys in the Lovense range, combining the functionality of a strapless strap-on, wearable vibrator and app-controlled couples toy in a single design.

The insertable bulb sits inside the wearer, creating internal stimulation while helping anchor the toy in place. The flexible neck can be adjusted to suit different anatomies and positions, while the external ridged base rests against the vulva, delivering broad clitoral stimulation through vibration and grinding. The insertable shaft simultaneously provides stimulation for a partner. Uniquely, the Lapis contains three independently controlled motors, allowing the wearer, receiver and external base to all receive stimulation.

Why We Love It

This is one of those toys that's genuinely difficult to explain because it does so many things at once.

Most strapless strap-ons ask the wearer to sacrifice pleasure for stability.

The Lapis doesn't.

The adjustable bulb anchors internally while providing G-spot pressure and vibration, the ridged external base stimulates the clitoris and vulva through contact and grinding, and the shaft delivers vibration to a partner. The result is a toy that was clearly designed around the idea that everybody involved deserves to have fun.

We particularly love it for couples who have struggled with traditional strapless strap-ons. The adjustable neck allows the toy to be customised to different bodies, making it easier to find a position that feels comfortable and secure. And because it's Lovense, the app control opens the door to long-distance control, custom vibration patterns and interactive play.

Best For

• Strapless strap-ons
• Couples play
• Shared stimulation
• App-controlled toys
• Long-distance relationships
• G-spot stimulation
• Clitoral stimulation
• Queer and lesbian couples
• Partner-controlled play
• Hands-free penetration
• Wearable vibrators
• Interactive pleasure
• Lovense ecosystem users
• People wanting stimulation while wearing a strap-on

Not Ideal For

• People seeking a simple dildo
• Users who dislike internal wear
• Those wanting a traditional harness-only setup
• People who prefer non-app toys
• Users looking for beginner penetration sizes
• Those wanting a purely external vibrator

Passionfruit Says

"One of the smartest strapless designs we've seen. The Lapis solves one of the biggest challenges of strapless strap-ons by making the wearer's pleasure a priority rather than an afterthought. The adjustable neck allows you to tailor the fit, while the vibrating bulb, ridged clitoral base and insertable shaft mean stimulation is available from multiple directions at once.

We particularly love it for couples who want a more connected experience. Whether you're using it with a partner in the room or handing over control through the Lovense app, the Lapis creates a level of interaction that most strapless strap-ons simply can't match."

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a strapless strap-on?

A strapless strap-on is designed to be worn internally by one partner while simultaneously penetrating another partner, without requiring a traditional harness.

Does the Lapis need a harness?

Not necessarily. It can be worn as a strapless strap-on, although some users may choose to pair it with a compatible harness for additional support and stability.

What makes the Lapis different from other strapless strap-ons?

The adjustable neck, app control and three independently controlled motors create a much more customisable experience than most strapless designs.

Can both partners feel vibration?

Yes. The design allows stimulation for the wearer and receiver simultaneously, with separate motors positioned throughout the toy.

Can my partner control it remotely?

Yes. Through the Lovense app, vibration settings can be adjusted remotely by a trusted partner.

Is the neck adjustable?

Yes. The flexible neck is specifically designed to be adjusted for different bodies, positions and preferences.

Is it suitable for long-distance relationships?

While the physical toy obviously requires both partners together for penetration, the app-controlled features allow remote interaction and partner control.

Do I need the app?

No. The Lapis can be used as a standalone toy, but the app unlocks additional customisation and connectivity features.

Who is the Lapis best suited to?

Couples looking for shared stimulation, queer couples exploring strapless play, and anyone who wants a more interactive alternative to traditional strap-on designs often fall in love with the Lapis.