Soft Lover
What Is It?
The Soft Lover by Playful is one of the softest vibrators we've ever stocked.
With its ultra-flexible shaft, velvety silicone and gently curved G-spot tip, it moulds to your body rather than asking your body to adapt to it. Think of it as the difference between lying on a memory foam mattress versus a park bench.
Designed for both internal and external pleasure, the Soft Lover combines a wonderfully squishy feel with a flexible shaft and powerful vibration patterns, making it ideal for people who prioritise comfort as much as sensation.
Why We Love It
Not everybody wants a rigid vibrator. In fact, many people actively dislike them.
Whether you're navigating vaginismus, vulvodynia, menopause, pelvic floor tension, recovering from pain, or simply prefer a softer sensation, finding a toy that feels welcoming rather than intimidating can be surprisingly difficult.
That's where the Soft Lover shines.
Its ultra-soft silicone and flexible shaft create a much gentler experience than traditional G-spot vibrators, while still providing enough structure to explore internal pleasure comfortably. The pronounced curved tip helps target the G-spot, while the flexible body allows you to experiment with different angles and pressure levels.
It's one of the few vibrators we regularly describe as a "stress ball for your vagina."
Best For
- Vaginismus
- Vulvodynia
- Menopause
- Pelvic floor sensitivity
- Painful intercourse
- People who find most toys too hard
- First internal vibrator
- Returning to pleasure after a long break
- Exploring G-spot stimulation gently
- Body confidence and self-discovery
- Internal and external stimulation
- People who prefer comfort over intensity
Particularly Good For
Vaginismus
The slim size, soft silicone and highly flexible shaft make the Soft Lover one of our favourite vibrators for people wanting to explore penetration gently and at their own pace.
Unlike rigid toys, it bends and moves with your body, helping reduce feelings of pressure and resistance.
Vulvodynia
Many people with vulvodynia find hard toys uncomfortable, even when they enjoy pleasure and arousal.
The Soft Lover's cushioned feel and flexible design allow for more control over pressure, depth and positioning.
Menopause
Hormonal changes can affect comfort, lubrication and sensitivity.
The Soft Lover offers a softer, less confronting experience that many people find more comfortable during menopause, especially when paired with a quality water-based lubricant.
People Who Don't Think They Like Toys
This is a surprisingly common customer.
Many people tell us: "I don't like toys. They're too hard. Too loud. Too much."
The Soft Lover was practically designed for that person.
Not Ideal For
- People who enjoy very firm G-spot pressure
- Those wanting extremely intense vibration
- Users who prefer rigid toys
- People looking for a large, filling toy
- Anyone wanting thrusting or rotating functions
Passionfruit Says
"This is one of our most recommended vibrators for people who have struggled with other toys. The combination of ultra-soft silicone, flexibility and approachable size makes it feel genuinely welcoming. We often recommend it to customers navigating vaginismus, vulvodynia, menopause or simply those looking for a gentler relationship with pleasure. If most vibrators feel clinical or intimidating, this is often the toy that changes people's minds."
Features
Ultra-Soft Silicone
Made from exceptionally soft, velvety silicone that feels gentle against sensitive tissue.
Flexible Shaft
Contours to your body and allows you to customise pressure, angle and positioning.
Curved G-Spot Tip
Designed to provide gentle, targeted internal stimulation without excessive firmness.
Powerful Yet Quiet
Offers multiple vibration patterns while remaining discreet and easy to use.
Waterproof
Suitable for bath and shower play and easy cleaning.
Rechargeable
USB rechargeable with up to 90 minutes of play time.
Looking For A Gentle Vibrator?
The Soft Lover is one of our favourite recommendations for:
The Soft Lover is one of our favourite recommendations for:
- A vibrator for vaginismus
- A vibrator for vulvodynia
- A vibrator for menopause
- A soft internal vibrator
- A flexible G-spot vibrator
- A first internal vibrator
- A comfortable vibrator for sensitive bodies
- A vibrator after painful sex experiences
Because pleasure shouldn't require you to push through discomfort. It should meet your body where it is today.
