Anal Training Dilator Set

What Is It?

Whether you're preparing for anal sex, exploring pelvic floor therapy or looking for a gentler alternative to traditional butt plugs, the b-Vibe Anal Training Dilator Set is designed to help you progress comfortably and confidently.

Unlike classic butt plugs, these smooth silicone dilators have a longer, gently tapered shape that provides a gradual stretch along the entire anal canal. The four progressively sized dilators allow you to work at your own pace, helping your body adapt naturally over time rather than rushing to a larger size. They're also suitable for vaginal dilation, making this a wonderfully versatile set for a range of therapeutic and pleasure-focused uses.

Made from silky-soft, body-safe silicone, each dilator features a comfortable handle-style safety base for easy insertion, removal and controlled movement during use.

Why We Love It

Not everyone wants a traditional butt plug - and not everyone should start with one.

What makes this set so clever is that the dilator shape creates a slow, gradual stretch rather than asking your body to suddenly accommodate the widest point of a plug. That makes it an excellent choice for people who feel nervous about anal play, are preparing for larger toys or penetrative anal sex, or simply prefer a gentler approach.

We also love how versatile these are. While they're marketed for anal training, they're equally useful as vaginal dilators, making them suitable for people working through vaginismus, pelvic pain, recovery after medical treatment or anyone wanting to gradually become more comfortable with penetration. (As always, follow the advice of your pelvic health practitioner if using them therapeutically.)

As sexologists, we often recommend gradual progression over "pushing through". This set encourages exactly that - taking your time, listening to your body and progressing only when you're ready.

Best For

• Anal beginners
• Anal training
• Preparing for anal sex
• Gradual dilation
• Vaginal dilator therapy
• Vaginismus
• Pelvic pain rehabilitation
• Building confidence with penetration
• Silicone toy lovers
• Body-safe training

Not Ideal For

• People wanting vibration
• Long-term plug wear
• Advanced anal stretching
• Those looking for a feeling of fullness from a traditional butt plug

Passionfruit Says

"We love that these are true dilators rather than simply small butt plugs. The gradual taper makes stretching feel much more controlled and comfortable, whether you're preparing for anal sex or using them as part of a pelvic health journey. They're beautifully made, incredibly smooth and encourage exactly the kind of slow progression we recommend."

Frequently Asked Questions

How are these different from butt plugs?

While butt plugs are designed to be inserted and worn, these are dilators. Their long, tapered shape creates a gradual stretch during insertion, making them ideal for training, rehabilitation and becoming more comfortable with penetration.

Are they suitable for beginners?

Absolutely. The smallest dilator provides a very gentle introduction, and each size builds gradually so you can progress when your body feels ready.

Can I use these as vaginal dilators?

Yes. Although they're marketed for anal training, they're equally suitable for vaginal dilation and can be helpful for people working with vaginismus, pelvic floor tension or other conditions where gradual, comfortable penetration is recommended.

Do I have to progress through all four sizes?

Not at all. Many people stay with one size for weeks or months. The goal isn't to reach the largest size as quickly as possible - it's to become comfortable and confident at your own pace.

What lubricant should I use?

We recommend using a generous amount of quality water-based lubricant with every session. Because these are silicone, water-based lubricants are the safest choice.

How long should I use each size?

There's no fixed timeline. Once a size feels comfortable to insert and remove without discomfort, you may wish to try the next size. Listen to your body and never force progression.

How do I clean them?

Wash each dilator with warm water and a quality toy cleaner before and after every use. Allow them to dry completely before storing.

Who is this set best suited to?

Anyone looking for a slow, gentle and body-friendly approach to anal or vaginal dilation. Whether you're preparing for anal play, working through pelvic floor therapy or simply becoming more comfortable with penetration, this set provides a safe and progressive way to build confidence.