A spreader bar is one of our most favored erotic accessories. Full surrender is required. Merciless arousal is bestowed and communication is heightened. Psychologically empowering. No need for a yoga class. Mind and body are one.
Sex without an erection can be slower, longer, more experimental and ultimately more pleasurable. What's not to love? If erections aren't staying the course, or if your vulva/vagina isn't up for it, then slow sex is your friend.
It's time to raid the toy box and get creative. Sometimes what you love using on your own doesn't quite cut the cake when you're with a partner. And those toys that never really got you off might just turn out to be your favourite! Let's explore!