Dildo and Harness: "Bend Over" Beginner Kit

What Is It?

The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit is one of the best strap-on starter kits we've ever come across.

Everything has been thoughtfully chosen to help you explore strap-on play with confidence. Inside you'll find an adjustable velvet harness, two premium silicone dildos (Small and Medium), a removable O-ring and a bullet vibrator that slips into a pocket at the front of the harness to provide extra stimulation for the wearer.

Unlike many cheaper kits, the dildos are made from Tantus' renowned ultra-premium silicone, making them body-safe, non-porous and built to last a lifetime.

Why We Love It

This kit takes all the guesswork out of buying your first strap-on.

Instead of trying to decide what size dildo you'll enjoy, you get two. Start with the slim Silk Small while you're learning or exploring anal play, then move up to the Silk Medium when you're ready. The progression feels natural, comfortable and far less intimidating than jumping straight to a larger toy.

The harness is another standout. It's comfortable, fully adjustable, machine washable and fits hips up to 60 inches, making it suitable for a wide range of bodies. We also love that you can swap the O-ring later if you decide to expand your collection.

It's one of those purchases that grows with you rather than becoming obsolete after a few uses.

Best For

• First-time strap-on users
• Beginners
• Pegging
• Couples
• Anal beginners
• Exploring role reversal
• Progressive sizing
• Premium silicone
• Comfortable harness
• Long-term use

Not Ideal For

• Experienced users wanting larger dildos
• Customers who already own a harness
• People looking for very realistic dildos
• Advanced pegging enthusiasts

Passionfruit Says

"We've recommended this kit for years because it removes one of the biggest barriers to trying strap-on play - choosing the right size. The two-dildo progression means you can start gently and build confidence at your own pace, while the quality is leagues above most beginner kits."

Which Bend Over Kit is right for me?

Beginner Kit – Includes the Small + Medium Silk dildos. Perfect if you're completely new to strap-on play, pegging or anal penetration.

Intermediate Kit – Includes the Medium + Large Silk dildos. Ideal if you already have some experience or want a kit that allows you to progress to a fuller size without buying another dildo.