The Best Toys For Painful Sex

Sometimes the vulva and/or the vagina are painful to the touch. A pelvic health physiotherapist can help you understand why this is occurring. We talk to many customers about painful sex and recommend great lubricant above all else, together with a slender, soft and low vibration vibrator or dilator set to improve the issue.

Here are our faves. Feel free to talk to us either in person or via our message box.

Isabelle Vibrating Dilator Kit - Dr Laura Berman

$89.00

This kit contains two sized toys for gradual dilation and includes a bullet with gentle vibrations for soothing vaginal stretching. The bullet can be interchanged between the two dilators. This...

Inspire Silicone Dilator Kit

$129.00

Supporting women with breast cancer is the aim of The Inspire Range from CalExotics and all proceeds are generously donated to Living Beyond Breast Cancer. This kit is high on...

Alena: Set of 3 Silicone Dilators

$60.00

These three slender, silicone dilators are softly sensual and perfect for gradual dilation of the vagina. The smallest is slimmer than my little finger and the largest is thumb thickness,...

Ohnut Set Of Four - various sizes *STAFF PICK*

$110.00

Now you can customise penetration depth and reduce the feeling of pain during PIV sex with the amazing Ohnut. Soft, stretchy, and oh-so-comfy, Ohnut is a simple and convenient way...

She-Ology 5 Piece Wearable Vaginal Dilator Set

$135.00

If you want to gradually open the vaginal canal, strengthen vaginal muscles as well as allow for pleasure while you're doing it, then the She-ology Set is for you. Each...

Mikazuki by Iroha

$240.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: SILENT TYPE: Internal - Rechargeable FUNCTION: Three speeds and one pattern. This rechargaeble G-Spot Vibrator is the latest in Japanese innovative technology. The material is...

Minamo by Iroha *STAFF PICK*

$240.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: VERY QUIET TYPE: Internal - RECHARGEABLE FUNCTION: Three speeds and one pattern. The Minamo has a curvy, wave-shaped design and is slightly thicker than the...

My Pod with Sanitiser - CalEx

$199.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: Internal FUNCTION: Seven speeds and rhythms My Pod is the first of its kind to come with a built-in UV sanitiser for...

Nu Sensuelle Aluminium 60SX Bullet Dilator

$115.00

POWER SCALE: 5/5NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: Internal / External - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 12 speeds Do you crave a tapered tip to ease you into your arousal? Does the thought...

Iris by Svakom *STAFF PICK*

$119.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: Super quiet TYPE: Internal - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 25 patterns - one button Iris has a beautiful shape and is slender enough to be considered as...

Cici by Svakom

$99.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: Internal - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 5 speeds Petite. Flexible. Powerful. Cici is basically a bullet on a stick! You can just use it...

Keri by Svakom

$99.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: External - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 25 speeds and functions Keri is the new standard in luxury clitoral stimulators. With a super powerful motor and...

Diamond Silk

$40.00

POWER SCALE: 2/5 NOISE LEVEL: VERY QUIET TYPE: Internal/External - Battery FUNCTION: Low to High This very innocent little vibrator has a very large fan base. It's only small -...

Soft Cherish by Playful

$125.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: Internal/External - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 4 speeds, 6 patterns - speed of the patterns cannot be altered We're cherishing this toy so much...

Soft Seduce by Playful

$99.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: NOT VERY QUIET TYPE: Internal - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 4 speeds, 6 patterns - speed of the patterns cannot be altered This beautiful squishy soft toy...

Iroha Zen - various colours

$79.00

POWER SCALE: 3/5 NOISE LEVEL: SILENT TYPE: External/Internal - Battery - 2 x AAA FUNCTION: 3 speeds, 1 patterns When one of our favourite brands brings out a new toy...

Iroha+ Kushi *STAFF PICK*

$240.00

POWER SCALE: 4/5 NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: External - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 5 speeds, 2 patterns - speed of the patterns cannot be altered Each of the three stimulators in...

Iroha+ Tori *STAFF PICK*

$240.00

POWER SCALE: 4/5 NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIET TYPE: External - Rechargeable FUNCTION: 5 speeds, 2 patterns - speed of the patterns cannot be altered Each of the three stimulators in...

Iroha+ Yoru *STAFF PICK*

$240.00

POWER SCALE: 4/5 NOISE LEVEL: WHISPER QUIETTYPE: External - RechargeableFUNCTION: 5 speeds, 2 patterns - speed of the patterns cannot be altered Each of the three stimulators in the Iroha+...

Sliquid Naturals: Sassy Water Based Lube - various sizes *STAFF PICK*

from $25.00

pH balanced (4.1 – 4.4 pH) Sassy is our most popular lubricant from one of our favourite brands, Sliquid. It is the cleanest and most simple water based blend that...

Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant - various sizes *STAFF PICK*

from $34.95

This could be the one item that has single-handedly changed the way we experience the joy of sex. If you haven't discovered this silicone lube, it is the one thing...

Pjur Mini Lube Collection

$25.00

As part of Pjur's 25th anniversary, this super cute mini lube collection has been launched, containing four of Pjur's best selling personal lubricants. All Pjur lubes are made in Germany...

Überlube Silicone Based Lube - 100ml *STAFF PICK*

$40.00

Überlube is the star lubricant in our coveted Lubrary. We cannot emphasise enough how a premium silicone lubricant such as Überlube can transform your sex life. Of course, like all...

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