Into it or not, Valentine’s day is upon us.

This year, we shared a series of questions to ask yourself and your favourite people, to help grow your love and appreciation for one another. Spoiler. Not all of them are about coupling up. Some of them celebrate friendship, self-love, singledom, and radical acts of connection.

So If, like us, you’re feeling a little worn down by love in a time of COVID, here are a few conversations worth having during this commercial holiday.

Print them out, and take the to dinner.
Make love to your partner, or yourself, and have fun taking turns in picking a question.

The Conversation Starters

What's the best piece of advice you've ever been given?
What is your favourite person’s most endearing quality that they might not see in themselves?
Who do you think has had the biggest influence on the person you are today?
What one thing has made you a stronger or better person?
What's the best concert/event you've ever been to?

Pick a time when your favourite person really rose to the occasion.
If you could have one superpower what would it be?
What's your single most recurring dream/nightmare?
If you could, what one person would you bring back from the dead?
Do you remember when you first masturbated? What did it feel like?

Which actor(s) would you choose to play each stage of your life thus far?
What is your most beautiful memory?
What do you most admire about your favourite person?
When was the last time you were proud of your favourite person and why?
If you could take your favourite person anywhere in the world, where would you go and what would you do?

What attracted you to your partner when you first met, and what attracts you now?
In what ways has your favourite person grown over the time you've been together?
What do you love most about being single?
How do you love yourself on a daily basis?
Where will you take yourself this Valentine’s day?

What area of self-love do you want to explore next?
Are there any parts of your sexuality not yet fully explored?
What are three qualities your favourite person has that makes your relationship stronger?
Name three of your favourite person’s favourite things.
What are three things on your bucket list?

What areas are you still learning about yourself?
Are there any areas that you feel like you need more support in?
What things help make sex great for you?
What do you need in order to feel heard and understood?
What things can you do to make others feel heard and understood?

What experience made you feel the most connected to your favourite person?
What is your favourite daily routine?
What do you feel like you and your favourite person do well together?
What things can you and your favourite person learn together?
What are your favourite types of gifts to receive?

What things do you love for people to do for you?
What are your favourite ways to be touched?
What things do you think we need to work harder on?
What’s your biggest fantasy with your favourite person?
What songs remind you of your favourite person?

Want to join the love-in? Please share your coy, candid and most cringeworthy answers via our Instagram before Cupid strikes on February 14th.