Strap-On-Me Dildo: various sizes

What is this dildo?

The Strap-On-Me Dual Density Dildo has become one of Passionfruit's all-time best-selling dildos. And once you feel it, you'll understand why.

Unlike traditional silicone dildos that can feel quite firm, this clever design features dual-density silicone with a supportive inner core and an ultra-soft outer layer. The result is a dildo that feels wonderfully squishy and body-like on the outside while remaining firm enough for confident thrusting.

Even better, the flexible core allows you to gently bend and shape the dildo to suit your body, making it easier to target the G-spot, prostate or simply find the angle that feels best. Available in four sizes, there's an option whether you're buying your very first strap-on dildo or looking to size up.

Why We Love It

If we had to recommend just one strap-on dildo to most customers, this would probably be it.

The dual-density silicone is what makes it so special. It has a beautiful softness that feels much more forgiving than standard silicone, especially during longer sessions or for anyone who finds firm dildos uncomfortable. The rounded tip has plenty of cushioning, so it glides comfortably without that "hard poke" feeling that many silicone toys can have.

We're also huge fans of the bendable core. Every body is different, so being able to adjust the angle means you can position it perfectly for G-spot or prostate stimulation instead of trying to force your body to fit the toy.

And then there's the suction cup. It's one of the strongest we've come across, making it fantastic for hands-free play, while the flared base fits beautifully into most harnesses.

Quite simply, it's one of those rare toys that lives up to the hype, and there's a reason it's become one of our best sellers.

Best For

• First-time strap-on users
• Pegging
• Couples
• G-spot stimulation
• Prostate stimulation
• Customers who find standard silicone too firm
• Harness play
• Hands-free play
• Premium dual-density silicone
• Finding the perfect angle

Not Ideal For

• Customers wanting a highly realistic dildo
• People who prefer an extremely firm toy
• Those looking for vibration
• Customers wanting textured stimulation

Passionfruit Says

"We've recommended this dildo hundreds of times, and it remains one of the products we come back to again and again. The dual-density silicone feels incredible, the bendable core makes it work with almost every body, and the strong suction cup is genuinely useful. Whether you're buying your first harness-compatible dildo or replacing an old favourite, this is one of the safest recommendations we can make."

Frequently Asked Questions

What does dual-density mean?

Dual-density toys have two layers of silicone - a firm inner core for support and a soft outer layer that feels much more lifelike and forgiving during use.

Why is the bendable core useful?

You can gently shape the dildo to suit your anatomy, making it easier to find the perfect angle for G-spot or prostate stimulation. Once bent, it holds its position until you adjust it again.

Can I use it with a harness?

Absolutely. The flared base is compatible with most standard strap-on harnesses.

Does the suction cup actually work?

Yes. It's one of the strongest suction cups we've used, making it ideal for hands-free play on smooth surfaces.

Which size should I choose?

• Small – Ideal for beginners, pegging and anyone who prefers slimmer toys.
• Medium – Our most popular size and a great all-rounder.
• Large – For those wanting more fullness.
• XL – Best for experienced users who enjoy a substantial toy.

Can I use it anally?

Yes. The flared base makes it suitable for anal play, provided you use plenty of water-based lubricant.

What lubricant should I use?

We recommend a quality water-based lubricant. Avoid silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys.

Who is this dildo best suited to?

Almost everyone. Whether you're exploring pegging, buying your first harness-compatible dildo or simply looking for a softer, more comfortable alternative to traditional silicone, it's one of the most versatile and universally loved dildos we've ever stocked.

Related educational links:

Pegging & Using a Strap-On 101: A Beginners Guide

Penetration Education for Strap On Play

Available in four sizes.