You haven't bought a vibrator before. Where to start??

Ask yourself this question first and really think about what you want out of your toy and how you imagine yourself using it.

QUESTION

Do I want something that's External - mostly clitoral, Internal - for exploration, thrusting and G-Spot stimulation or both - internal with an external arm for clitoral? These are often called Rabbits.

External toys are small, discreet, approachable and easy to use either by yourself or for a bit of extra stimulation when you're having penetrative sex with a partner.

Internal toys are super versatile because you can use them externally (as above) and then introduce them to your body when you're ready. The main difference, besides shape and size, is whether they're hard and rigid or soft and realistic feeling.

Rabbit toys target both the external part of the clitoris and the internal 'arms' that surround the vagina. Once you've inserted the shaft, you have a surround sound experience with more surface area responding to the vibration.

Popular externals include The Touch, JeJoue Bullets, Wish (which you can control with an App) and Iroha+.

Popular internals are Tiger (soft), Minamo (soft) Alulah (soft) and Rave (app controlled and rigid) and Mona.

Popular rabbits (that are both internal with an external arm for stimulation) include Elodie, Miss Bi, and Sense Max.

There's no right or wrong way to use your toy. Whatever feels good is perfect! Many people choose a toy because they just love the shape or the colour or the feel. Intuitive decisions are often our best decisions too! Lastly, one toy doesn't do everything. We often find that an internal toy is the most versatile and you can build your collection around that.

Have fun with your choice:)

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