We are sometimes of the mindset that one vibrator will do all things, or that maybe we should only use our vibrator in a certain type of scenario (whilst having sex for example).
Different vibrators are great for different situations, and it pays to have a variety.
Here are eight ways in which we here at Passionfruit, use our toys:
1. A quick afternoon orgasm
There’s nothing like getting off in less than a minute to help wake you up at 3.00pm. We drink too much coffee as it is. Instead, find your strongest vibe, such as the Hitachi Mini Wand or Essential Bullet, think sexy thoughts and apply to your clitoris. No need to get undressed. Job done. Of course suction vibrators are the newest way to get to your destination in record time.
2. Relaxation
Had a long day? Set the mood, draw the bath or lie in bed and leisurely love yourself. Employ your best waterproof wonder toy, like the seriously good Sassy, to melt your worries away. Orgasm has loads of health benefits and improves immunity. Stress helps us achieve things but can be detrimental to our health if not alleviated so….vibrator.
3. Self Exploration
A variety of vibrators will help you find out more about your own sexuality and how your body responds. Putting aside time to experiment, without orgasm as the sole aim will radically increase your libido and sexual confidence. You can search for your G-Spot using a favourite dildo like the Pure Wand or even go for a cervical orgasm with the Icicles No.70. You can experiment with anal toys like the Snug Plug to test the feel of weight in your butt while you masturbate. You can do your kegel exercises with the Yany Beads. You can massage your own prostate and try having an orgasm without ejaculating with the Vector+. You can employ the sensational Rave+ and feel parts of your vagina you never knew were there! Be bold and experiment with vibrators like you experiment with makeup or wine or shoes. (Admittedly, the above mentioned are not all 'vibrators' but choice sex toys nonetheless).
4. In front of your partner
Bringing yourself to orgasm with a gorgeous toy while your partner watches is completely erotic. Not only will you be showing your partner how you get turned on (education) you’ll look sexy as hell and skyrocket your bedroom confidence. Move your vibrator around and PLAY rather than leaving it in one place. We suggest the Big Boss for the illusion of real or the pretty and petite Amy 2.
5. With your partner in control
An enthusiastic partner will love to (for example) blindfold you, tie you up and bring you to shattering orgasm with the perfect toy. Heavenly! We always suggest a soft, flexible toy rather than a rigid toy for this scenario, so as to keep things comfortable. The Fun Factory range is perfect for this. Try the Tiger or Miss Bi.
6. Travel
Travelling to far flung destinations or for a round of international board meetings shouldn’t mean missing out on revitalising orgasms. You can wear your vibrator around your neck in the form of the stunning Le Wand Necklace or pack the brilliant Le Wand Deux that charges directly via USB (no cord). Most toys charge via USB so there’s no need to pack batteries. Then there’s toys like The Nova 2 that can be controlled via a smartphone from anywhere in the world. Why not have your partner enjoy the party too? Just because you’re far apart doesn’t mean you can’t be intimate.
7. During sex
Most women cannot climax through penetration alone. Using a clitoral toy during penetration like the Kushi or TouchX will help you achieve that. The We-Vibe Sync 2 is a couples toy that stays in place during sex and creates intimacy because you’re both feeling the same thing. A vibrating erection ring like the standout Mio is perfect for couples. His erection stays harder for longer and her clitoris feels the vibration when you’re at your closest. You can both have a powerful orgasm when completely connected.
8. Rehabilitation
Health issues affect us all and vibrators are a great tool to aid recovery. Both vaginismus and vulvodynia can be eased with the help of a slender, squishy insertable like the Mikazuki. A toy like the Niya 5 Flexi Pad can be used as a breast massager can relieve soreness, increase circulation and contribute to the healing process after breast surgery. Vibrators can be used to aid recovery from sexual trauma (we suggest talking to a physiotherapist about this). The Pulse can help bring a flaccid penis to ejaculation for men who have had a spinal cord injury or who suffer erectile dysfunction or limited mobility. And vibrators can help those with anorgasmia - when orgasm is persistently difficult to achieve.
So many different vibrators can help with all of the above. Have fun, try different models and keep a grand selection for every encounter.