We asked a long time Passionfruit customer who has been with his female partner for over 20 years to share his personal experience on G-Spot hunting.
So, where is the G-Spot?
Not sure if it’s the same for every woman, but my partner's G-Spot is pretty much behind her clitoris – only internally – perhaps slightly further north on the anterior wall of the vagina. It can vary slightly depending on her position. But generally, the classic 'come hither' motion using a finger or thumb in this region helps me find it.
What do you do with it when you think you've found it?
I find firm pressure using the come hither motion is best initially and then varying this with horizontal, vertical and diagonal strokes. Seems to be best to move away from this and continue other stimulation, then return. I think too much constant pressure for an extended time can desensitise her a little, unless she's pretty close to climax. Best not to leave unattended for too long though if G-Spot stimulation is the aim. Great to combine with stimulation of other sensitive body parts, too. I.e. nipples, clitoris, etc.
Sometimes rapid thrusting of the fingers in and out the pussy, with pressure once again largely on the anterior wall is great as well, combined with downward palm pressure on the mons pubis just above the clit is a good method for encouraging squirting. Important to be particularly careful if using the rapid fire thrusting of digits not to enter at an angle which may cause pain/discomfort/injury. Probably best employed by a partner who really knows the 'ins-and-outs' of her pussy.
What tips can you share in how to find and arouse the G-Spot?
Best not to go straight in and try find it (unless she’s experienced in responding to its immediate stimulation). Consider using plenty of stimulation and lube, especially if she generally prefers more slip factor or isn't naturally very lubricated. Persist and don’t give up. It is elusive and can tend to move around a little. And don’t be surprised if what works one time doesn’t the next, it's an elusive but very satisfying spot indeed.
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