WEEK 8: KINK
You made it! It is the final week of the Couple’s Bootcamp!
Everything we’ve done so far has been building up to a kinky finale. Here is when you can use all of your knowledge about each other’s bodies, your ability to listen and communicate your desires, your safe and erotic environment, mindfulness, and your capacity for play and joy.
Let’s explore kink. Even if you have been here before, there are still ways to explore these boundaries. We have a few activities to help you get started...
Kitty gives the low down on beginner kink play...
One of the most accessible ways to explore kink is to control each other’s senses. Try blindfolding, gagging or blocking hearing. For added benefit, you can each be deprived of the same sense or a different sense. Make sure your environment is safe and stop immediately if either of you feels uncomfortable physically, psychologically or emotionally.
The restriction of freedom during an activity that necessitates often vigorous movement provides a powerful juxtaposition that can help to heighten desire and arousal. This exercise is about getting all tied up. Start by gently binding wrists or ankles using loose ties. If you are more advanced you can try taking it up a knot. Your partner should always be able to easily escape. Make sure to keep it safe and keep checking in with your partner to make sure that they are comfortable. Stop immediately if either of you feels uncomfortable in any way.
Make an impact
The act of spanking can help draw blood to sensitive parts and stoke desire and arousal. This exercise is all about experimenting with impact play. If you are new to this it is generally a good idea to start with your hand or something soft and then gradually work your way up to something more intense. Stick to the fleshy parts of the body and keep checking in with your partner to make sure they are comfortable. Stop immediately if there is any pain or discomfort.