Did you know that approximately 1 million Australian penises experience erectile dysfunction?
From work to finances, our partners deal with many daily stressors. These stressors can invade the bedroom, making it difficult for them to give or receive sexual pleasure. Fortunately, performing a lingam massage on your partner’s penis can help increase their sexual stamina and supercharge your sex life.
Incorporating lingam massage into your sex life can be a great way to explore your partner’s body, allowing both of you to experience new pleasures and sensations. Apart from giving pleasure, lingam massage can help your partner harness their sexual energy, and allow them to increase their control over the penis.
If you’re fascinated, here is everything you need to know about lingam massage.
What is a Lingam Massage?
Lingam massage is a type of tantric massage that involves massaging the penis and the areas around it like the testicles, perineum, and prostate. During a Lingam massage, you can use a variety of massage techniques, including touching, stroking, deep breathing, acupressure, and more.
If consent is given, you can use penetration to internally massage the prostate. You should perform the massage with thoughtfulness, care, respect, and mindfulness.
You can use the massage to help your partner totally surrender themselves to sexual and spiritual pleasure. If done right, your partner may experience more than one orgasm.
How to Perform a Lingam Massage on Your Partner
Lingam massage can be foreplay to intercourse or an independent sexual act. Below is the best technique for how to perform a lingam massage on your partner or yourself.
Set the Mood
Creating a positive atmosphere during a lingam massage can make it more enjoyable. Take time to set your intentions for the massage and create an open mindset. Have your partner lie on their back in a place where they’re comfortable.
Guide them through deep breathing exercises to help them relax. You can also create a sacred and sensual environment by:
- Dimming the lights
- Lighting some candles
- Playing some meditative music
- Preparing the massage oils
To reduce friction and increase sensation during the session, you should use massage oils. Generally, oils that are natural and hypoallergenic work best. You can also use your partner’s favourite massage oil to increase their awareness and arousal.
Lubricate and Massage the Peripheral Areas
Start the massage by focusing on the areas around the penis like the lower abdomen, upper thighs, and inner thighs. Move your hands slowly and purposely across your partner’s skin, allowing them to experience all the pleasurable sensations. You can also compliment them on something you like about what you're touching or seeing.
Work Your Way Up to the Erogenous Zones
Move on to the testicles and gently massage them. You can use your fingernails or lightly fondle them with your palms. Be careful with the balls. Since people differ as to the kind of touch they like, you can ask your partner how they want their testicles to be touched.
If your partner enjoys it, you can stroke the perineum—the sensitive patch of skin between the anus and the scrotum.
Massage the Shaft
Once you’ve teased the areas around the penis, you can move your massage to the shaft of the penis. For a more pleasurable lingam massage, variety is key during this step. Using one or both hands, vary your stroke sequences between twisting and straight up-and-down motions.
You can also vary your grip from lighter to harder and speed from slow to fast. Always use the massage oil to help create a smoother, gliding motion.
Keep Your Partner at the Edge of Orgasm
When you notice that your partner is close to orgasming, pull back and focus on another area. You can also slow down, encouraging them to breathe and ride the wave of orgasmic sensations. Continue edging throughout the massage as long as your partner enjoys it. If your partner orgasms early, you can continue with the massage.
Stimulate the Prostate
Commonly referred to as the sacred spot, the prostate is a walnut-size gland located between the bladder and the penis. You can gently massage it externally on the perineum using your fingers or knuckles, letting your partner guide you on the pressure to use. You can also stimulate the prostate with circular massage motions.
Ask your partner if they want to take the prostate massage to the next level with an internal massage. If they are, you can insert your finger or sex toy into the anus and use gentle pressure to stimulate the area.
Gently End the Massage
You can end the massage by allowing your partner to climax with an orgasm or move on to having intercourse. In case your partner is committed to semen retention, you can encourage them to hold in their juices and transmute their orgasm into a full-body energy orgasm.
Benefits of a Lingam Massage
While a lingam massage is intended to be a sexual experience, its benefits go beyond just pleasure. Here are reasons why you and your partner should engage in a Lingam massage:
Improves Your Sex Life
Lingam massage can help you understand more about your partner’s body through touch. You can awaken parts of them that they never even knew existed. Learning the process of touch can help you out of a domestic rut, improving your sex life.
Improves Your Mental Health
Is your partner feeling stressed?
A lingam massage can help them relax. Through physical touch, you can help release dopamine and oxytocin—the pleasure and happiness hormones. This leads to greater relaxation and happiness.
Takes the Pressure Off
Our partner’s sexuality can be negatively impacted by the pressure of having to perform. Gifting them a lingam massage with no expectation of erection or penetration can be deeply euphoric.
Improves Your Confidence
Sometimes penis owners have difficulties with touch and sexual expression. Penis, or lingam massage can help them feel comfortable with touch and to become more confident during sexual intercourse. This massage can also boost your self-esteem in all aspects of your life.
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